Le festin de Kelly - Professional confidence
As the streets and stores are decked out in their festive finery, and the melodies of Michael Bublé and Mariah Carey are once again ringing out, a very special time is on the horizon.
Behind thefestive atmosphere of the festive season sometimes lies a completely different reality: stress, tension, conflict...
At Nidéco, we believe that the festive season should above all be synonymous with well-being and open discussion. That's why, at this special time of year, we've decided to set the taboo subjects free with a unique initiative in collaboration with our co-creators:
"Le Festin Nidéco
Today, it's Kelly, co-creator of Upper Chill, who gives us her heart on :
Professional confidence 🌞
I've been self-employed for over six years now.
I've tried several times to join forces so that I'm no longer alone on a ship. Because sometimes it's very complicated...
Sometimes you feel very alone and wish you didn't have the pressure of performance on your shoulders. You'd like to be able, just for one day, to be in a deep sleep.
To have a team of associates on whom you can rely, to be able to be remotivated when you're having your period or simply when you're having a hard time, and to no longer be alone, making all the decisions.... My dream!
For all these reasons, I've always wanted to find an associate, a partner to share things with.
Unfortunately I can't, I'm always disappointed, I always have too many expectations and above all I never trust...
I can't let go of my baby...
Six years ago, I tried to open a restaurant with my ex-partner. Working together led to a break-up and the annulment of our marriage...
Two years ago, I wanted to start the adventure all over again with a friend, to finally launch my own platform, because I didn't have all the skills on my own. Once again, I failed: a carnage even... It all boils down to disappointment, suffering and a lot of incomprehension.
Money and success can drive you crazy...
Recently, I tried the team version in a much lighter mode. No rules. No contract, just feel it and see what happens. Worst mistake ever!
In the end, we didn't see things the same way, we didn't have the same values, but I didn't understand that until it was too late.
In the beginning, it's always perfect. We say to ourselves, "No, this will never happen to us", "I'm not doing this for the money, only for the beauty of the project", "No need for a contract if it doesn't work out, everyone goes back to their own lives No stress".
Today, I don't have an explanation or an answer for all this.
I just know I've lost my confidence and that's a real handicap.
I'm not the Kelly I was seven years ago, all fire and brimstone and no one could stop me.
I'm more tired, more sensitive. I try very hard to analyze my mistakes so as not to repeat them.
